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		<title>The Manifestation Wheel</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 21:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have finished a really interesting book titled The Manifestation Wheel: A Practical Process for Creating Miracles written by Alan Seale. The Manifestation Wheel is made up of eight “houses” or steps: intention, peace, energy, guidance, empowerment, action, surrender, and &#8230; <a href="http://zenandmore.com/2008/05/03/the-manifestation-wheel/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright" style="float: right; border: 0;" src="http://www.btwendel.com/blogimages/book-manwheel.jpg" alt="" width="143" height="200" />I have finished a really interesting book titled <strong>The Manifestation Wheel: A Practical Process for Creating Miracles</strong> written by Alan Seale.</p>
<blockquote><p>The Manifestation Wheel is made up of eight “houses” or steps: intention, peace, energy, guidance, empowerment, action, surrender, and legacy. Through these eight houses, the Manifestation Wheel offers a process that helps readers create the conditions necessary for their vision to manifest. It calls forth the reader’s intuition and develops deeper and higher levels of awareness.</p>
<p>Alan explains that in beginning a project, we usually begin by clarifying what we want. However the immediate next question, one that is rarely asked, must be, “What is the greatest potential wanting to unfold?” This is the true catalyzing question. The Wheel takes you beyond personal wants and desires to tap into a bigger picture—a picture of “what wants to happen,” a picture of your greatest potential and the greatest potential of a moment, situation, project, or vision.</p></blockquote>
<p>The book guides the reader through the eight houses of the wheel. Exercises and questions for each house help you keep your project on the move and aligned to the structure of the wheel. The eight houses form a logical path from vision to legacy, placing action plans in the sixth house and using the first five houses to build a solid foundation. The final step in each house is to go back through the previous ones and see if anything has to be changed.</p>
<p>In the eight house of legacy you shall consider sustainability and long term implications of your project. What is the impact on coming generations? That is something we rarely ask ourselves.</p>
<blockquote><p>For many years, Alan used the Lakota Medicine Wheel and its concepts to powerful effect in the building of his life, career, and relationships. Recognizing that the language of the Medicine Wheel was a bit arcane for today’s world, he adapted the Medicine Wheel to create the Manifestation Wheel, a tool that is accessible, practical, and immediately productive for individuals, businesses, and organizations in the 21st century. Now Alan has written the guidebook to the Manifestation Wheel, making this simple yet profound process available to everyone.</p></blockquote>
<p>I love the book, it is well written and the Manifestation Wheel is a very useful tool. But available to everyone is a stretch, you must have an open mind and trust the combination of spiritual wisdom and scientific knowledge.</p>
<p>I shall use the Manifestation Wheel for a key project of mine, growing my coaching business into something substantial and sustainable. My first use of the wheel was small scale and part of that bigger project, picking a name and getting the site <a href="http://keycoaching.net/">Key Coaching</a> up and running.</p>
<p>The image is borrowed from Allan Seale&#8217;s site.<br />
<img style="border: 0pt none;" src="http://www.btwendel.com/blogimages/ManifestationWheel_Color.jpg" alt="The Manifestation Wheel" width="300" height="316" /></p>
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		<title>The 5-minute Meditator</title>
		<link>http://zenandmore.com/2008/03/23/the-5-minute-meditator/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 16:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bengt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have finished a book written by Eric Harrison and titled The 5-minute Meditator, I like it a lot. It is the perfect book for people who &#8216;have no time to meditate&#8217;. The book has about a dozen &#8216;spot meditations&#8217; &#8230; <a href="http://zenandmore.com/2008/03/23/the-5-minute-meditator/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright" style="border: 0pt none; float: right;" src="http://btwendel.com/blogimages/book-fiveminutemeditator.jpg" alt="The 5-minute meditator" width="95" height="151" />I have finished a book written by Eric Harrison and titled <strong>The 5-minute Meditator</strong>, I like it a lot. It is the perfect book for people who &#8216;have no time to meditate&#8217;. The book has about a dozen &#8216;spot meditations&#8217; lasting from half a minute to five minutes. Short meditations are just as effective as long ones, that suits me perfect since it is easier for me to do several short meditations than a long one.</p>
<blockquote><p>Meditation is about choosing where you direct your attention. If you focus on something that is simple and sensual, you relax.</p>
<p>The basic instructions are: focus on the sensations of the present &#8211; sight, sound, taste or touch &#8211; and let your thoughts pass by in the background.</p></blockquote>
<p>Eric writes that <em>just a few minutes of deep breathing each day can make a difference to our well-being</em>. I do a simple practice of three deep breaths that works very well for me.</p>
<blockquote><p>You do not have to make yourself relax. You just stand back and let it happen. Meditation is the art of doing nothing. Your body and mind will naturally settle if you give them half a chance. The less you try to do, the better it works!</p></blockquote>
<p>That sounds easy but it takes practice before it works. Eric says this about staying present:</p>
<blockquote><p>To stay in the present, focus on <em>one thing</em> in the present. We call this the meditation object. It is your anchor, it is what you persuade your mind to return to when it wanders away.</p></blockquote>
<p>One thing to focus on is our breath, easy and always available. Eric mentions that <em>a visual object can be much easier to focus on than the breath so your mind is less inclined to wander</em>. The choice is yours, pick an object that is available and do a short meditation.</p>
<p>I work as a coach and I use a short meditation before sessions to unwind, relax and become focused on the session to come. It helps me become more present.</p>
<p><small>Note: This text is published at <a href="http://btwendel.com/">btwendel.com</a>. If you see it elsewhere they are using my content.</small></p>
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		<title>Which tiger are you feeding?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 11:05:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bengt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got this quote in one of my Daily Forwards Step: An old man said to his grandson, &#8220;Boy, I have two tigers caged within me. One is love and compassion. The other is fear and anger.&#8221; The young boy &#8230; <a href="http://zenandmore.com/2008/02/23/which-tiger-are-you-feeding/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.btwendel.com/blogimages/tiger-rest-small.JPG" border="0" alt="" width="154" height="100" align="right" />I got this quote in one of my Daily Forwards Step:</p>
<blockquote><p>An old man said to his grandson, &#8220;Boy, I have two tigers caged within me. One is love and compassion. The other is fear and anger.&#8221; The young boy asked, &#8220;Which one will win, grandfather?&#8221; The old man replied, &#8220;The one I feed.&#8221;<br />
Indian tale</p></blockquote>
<p>I prefer to feed love and compassion, which tiger are YOU feeding?</p>
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		<title>Opening The Door</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 21:57:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[DailyOM today is about Fighting Against Our Gifts, here is part of it. As human beings we often have a tendency to fight against using our natural gifts. Many stories of success start with an individual who is ignoring the &#8230; <a href="http://zenandmore.com/2007/12/26/opening-the-door/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.btwendel.com/blogimages/bambooborder-r.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="100" height="271" align="right" />DailyOM today is about Fighting Against Our Gifts, here is part of it.</p>
<blockquote><p>As human beings we often have a tendency to fight against using our natural gifts. Many stories of success start with an individual who is ignoring the call of his or her inborn abilities. There are many possible reasons for this resistance, from fear that the calling will be too difficult to a disbelief in the very work one is being asked to do. We may feel too small, too distracted by other people’s ideas about what we should do, or too uninformed. Whatever the case, the resistance to actualizing ourselves has very concrete consequences, and many of us have been called out of hiding by an illness or a twist of fate that unequivocally dismantled our resistance. In other words, the universe knocks, and if we don’t answer it knocks louder.</p>
<p>The first step on the journey to our calling in life is to listen to our internal voices and respond to the knocking universe at the door. As we do, the symptoms and anxieties that have haunted us will fade into the background, replaced by opportunities, both big and small, to open the door to what we are truly here to do.</p></blockquote>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.dailyom.com/">DailyOM</a></p>
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		<title>Being Alone &#8211; A Relationship With Self</title>
		<link>http://zenandmore.com/2007/07/18/being-alone-a-relationship-with-self/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 17:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My DailyOM had this text today: The most important relationship we have in our lives is with our selves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives—from birth onward—this relationship can &#8230; <a href="http://zenandmore.com/2007/07/18/being-alone-a-relationship-with-self/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.btwendel.com/blogimages/bambooborder-r.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="100" height="271" align="right" />My <a href="http://www.dailyom.com/">DailyOM</a> had this text today:</p>
<blockquote><p>The most important relationship we have in our lives is with our selves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives—from birth onward—this relationship can be the most difficult one to cultivate. This may be because society places such emphasis on the importance of being in a romantic partnership, even teaching us to set aside our own needs for the needs of another. Until we know ourselves, however, we cannot possibly choose the right relationship to support our mutual growth toward our highest potential. By allowing ourselves to be comfortable with being alone, we can become the people with whom we want to have a relationship.</p></blockquote>
<p>Someone said this about living alone: <em>I am not alone, I am with myself</em>. Personally I need time alone as well as I need time being with other people.</p>
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		<title>Walking Through When Doors Open</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2006 16:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This text came from DailyOM and it rings true to me. When a door opens, walk through it. Trust that the door has opened for a reason and you have been guided to it. Sometimes we have a tendency to &#8230; <a href="http://zenandmore.com/2006/09/15/walking-through-when-doors-open/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.btwendel.com/blogimages/bambooborder-r.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="100" height="271" align="right" />This text came from <a href="http://www.dailyom.com/">DailyOM</a> and it rings true to me.</p>
<blockquote><p>When a door opens, walk through it. Trust that the door has opened for a reason and you have been guided to it. Sometimes we have a tendency to overanalyze or agonize over the decision, but it is quicker to simply go through the door and discover what&#8217;s there as that&#8217;s the only way to know. Even if it doesn&#8217;t seem right at first, opening this door may lead to another door that will take us where we need to go.</p>
<p>Doors open when the time is right for us to enter a new space, metaphorically speaking, and we can have faith that walking through is the right thing to do. Sometimes we linger in the threshold because we are afraid of leaving our old life for a life we know nothing about. We may have voices inside of our heads that try to hold us back or people in our lives saying discouraging things. These voices, internal and external, are known as threshold spirits, and they express all the fears and doubts that arise at the beginning of a new life. Nevertheless, none of these voices can hold us back, and they will fall silent as soon as we cross the threshold.</p>
<p>There are many doors that open in the course of our lives, leading us into new relationships, jobs, friendships, and creative inspirations. Our lives up to this point are the result of all the doors we have walked through, and our continued growth depends on our willingness to keep moving into new spaces. Every time we walk through an open door, we create a sense memory that encourages us to move into the new fearlessly. When we enter the new space, we almost always feel a thrill and a new feeling of confidence, in ourselves and in the universe. We have stepped across the threshold into a new life.</p></blockquote>
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